
Reconnect to the Soul of the Masculine
An Online Event via Zoom
July 12, 2023
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As the winds of change have blown through our culture, the public conversation about what it means to be a man is in flux.
Men’s lives are meant to be driven by a certain purposefulness. Where can a man look to find the best way to move, how to be, in these times?
Sacred Fire LifeWays presents
Reconnect to the Soul of the Masculine
An interview with Don David Wiley With Lawrence Messerman and Lee Skinner
Wednesday, July 12, 2023 7:00 pm Eastern | Online via Zoom $30
Escape the polarized sound bytes of popular media’s conversation and hear a perspective about masculinity that is rooted in thousands of years of human experience. Join us for a conversation with tradition holder Don David Wiley, an elder shaman in both the indigenous Huichol and Nahua cultures of Mexico. Through his experiences as a tradition holder, healer, ceremonialist and teacher, Don David is uniquely positioned to offer nuanced views about the role of the sacred masculine, views that have persisted through out very long periods of time. Interviewing Don David will be Lawrence Messerman, a Huichol mara’akame, husband, and initiated Firekeeper and Speaker for Sacred Fire International, and Lee Skinner, a Nahua granicero, husband, father and vice president of a local business. These two men will bring questions for an unrehearsed conversation with don David for this live event.Through this conversation—which will include time for audience questions at the end—men will experience a nature-based, wisdom-way perspective that serves men and their lives at home, at work, and in their communities. Discover new confidence and direction, about how and why the “masculine role” is needed now more than ever. Join us for this engaging exploration.What’s behind society’s changing relationship with masculinity? What does a traditional indigenous perspective offer to clarify the confusion about what it means to be a man today? What is “sacred” about being a man?
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Registration is open. Your registration fee includes access to the program recording. Reconnect to the Masculine with Confidence and Direction is of particular benefit when attended LIVE, so you can benefit from instruction and dialog with the presenter. Recordings are for the benefit of those who are unable to attend or are unexpectedly called away. Recordings are for the registration holder; please do not share your recording with others. Register HereSchedule
Price
$30 Fee includes the program recording whether or not you can attend the live event.For more information
For more information, contact at sacredfirelifeways@sacredfire.org
Featuring
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Don David Wiley. In 1996, the Spirit of Fire — known as Grandfather Fire — appeared before David as an apparition in the garden of a meditation retreat center near Mexico City. Grandfather Fire asked David to be his conduit, so that people everywhere could discover their innate connection to spirit and have an experiential relationship with nature and the Divine. It was an encounter that profoundly altered his understanding of what is possible and how to live.
Grandfather Fire sent David to find two indigenous elders — Don Lupe Ríos Gonzales of the Wixárika (Huichol) tradition of Mexico’s Sierra Madres, and Don Lucio Campos Elizalde of the Nahua tradition of the central highlands — who began his formal apprenticeship in these two ancestrally related shamanic paths. From the Huichol tradition, he received initiation as a mara’akame — healer, counselor, and ceremonial leader. From the Nahua path, he was initiated as a granicero — weather worker, ceremonial leader, and healer. In 2008, he received initiation as a Huichol tsaurirrakame(elder shaman). On the Nahua path, he became Caporal Mayor — teacher and tradition leader — inheriting Don Lucio’s altar and lineage. As a recognized elder in both traditions, he carries the title of respect: Don David.
Also beginning in 1996, Grandfather Fire began speaking directly through Don David during special ceremonial gatherings — work that has touched thousands of people across the globe for nearly three decades. Among the Huichol, an axihuatakame is a god-speaker: a conduit who enters a deep trance state so that a divine presence can speak directly through them. A collection of Grandfather Fire’s wisdom was published as Heard Around the Fire in 2010; a second book is in final editing.
Over the years, Grandfather Fire inspired Don David and the community growing around Grandfather’s wisdom to spread traditional lifeways through the world. This lead to the founding of nonprofits Sacred Fire, which began training Sacred Firekeepers and hosting events and programs in 2004; Blue Deer Center, a Sacred Place in the Catskill Mountains of NY, a spiritual retreat of healing and transformation in nature which opened in 2005, and Sacred Fire Foundation, a charitable organization founded to promote and protect traditional indigenous lifeways in 2009. He continues to train a dedicated community of students, healers, ceremonial leaders, and firekeepers — ensuring that this wisdom is carried forward.
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This course was created by Sacred Fire Co-Founder Don David Wiley, informed by his more than 25 years of experience as a Nahua and Huichol traditional healer, ceremonial leader, teacher and elder. His comprehensive spiritual perspective on the phenomenon, power, and importance of prayer incorporates both the practical and the spiritual, empowering people to fully engage in their day-to-day lives.
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Lawrence (Larry) Messerman has been continuously astonished by–and deeply grateful–for the wisdom of Grandfather Fire ever since he first ‘met’ Grandfather at a gathering on the beach in Santa Barbara, CA over 25 years ago. Under Grandfather’s guidance, Larry went on to become a mara’akame (initiated healer and ritual leader in the Wirárika or Huichol tradition) as well as being involved with Sacred Fire in various capacities. (The gods seem to like keeping human people busy!) This includes organizing Ukilái retreats for men, helping to launch Sacred Fire’s mentoring program for young adults, as well as becoming a Co-Executive Director and eventually Executive Director of Sacred Fire. He currently serves as Sacred Fire’s Speaker or chief spokesperson. Larry and his wife Jessica De la O and their friend Sherry Boatright help people connect with Grandfather Fire’s ‘primal form’ at their monthly community fires in Carrollton, Georgia.
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Lee Skinner is a husband, a father, a son, a brother, manager of a small business, and, last but not least, he has been walking the path of a Quiapaquiz from the Nahua tradition for the last 20 years. As a father to two young children and the Vice President of a local business he spends much of his days attempting to learn to juggle home and work in a more balanced way. As a Quiapaquiz, or Weather Worker in the English language, he is a tradition holder who acts as an emissary for his community in relation to the divine forces of weather.